How do I break up with a kind and generous man who leaves me feeling cold and irritated? | Leading questions

<p>If you want permission that it’s OK to hurt a good person: it is, writes advice columnist <strong>Eleanor Gordon-Smith</strong>. There is a life he could have without you</p><ul><li><p>Read more <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/series/leading-questions">Leading questions</a></p></li></ul><p><strong>How do I break up with a man who loves me, is super kind and generous, and provides stability but who leaves me feeling cold and irritated most of the time?</strong></p><p><strong>I’m a 36-year-old woman and we’ve been together for four years. During this time his stability has provided me with a base to grow and expand in the most wonderful ways. Now I feel suffocated. He is a wonderful person but has no interest in ever leaving his home town to try something new (I’m an immigrant). His only interests are pubs and football and when we go abroad he </strong><strong>wants to spend most of his time in the pub, which infuriates me.</strong></p> <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/oct/31/break-up-kind-generous-man-leaves-me-feeling-cold-irritated">Continue reading...</a>