My partner fantasises about men during sex - and it makes me feel undesired as a woman

<p>He swears it’s just a kink and he will never cheat, but I worry that one day he will leave me for a man</p><p><strong>My partner has always been aroused by gay sexual acts and only really manages to have sex with </strong><strong>this stimulus. He was honest about this from the start. I’m quite open-minded and </strong><strong>went along with a lot of scenarios </strong><strong>that turned him on. He says it’s just a kink and he’s not gay</strong><strong>. </strong></p><p><strong>However, now </strong><strong>every time we have sex it’s always focused on the fantasy of him being with a man. He never looks at me with desire other than saying my face is really pretty. I can walk about naked and he won’t bat an eyelid. He sees me as a fem</strong><strong>dom, which I think means he likes me to make him </strong><strong>“come out</strong><strong>”. He’s an honest man, good to me and we get along perfectly. I just feel a bit undesired as a woman and worry one day he will decide he is, in fact, gay. </strong></p> <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/sep/30/my-partner-fantasises-about-men-during-sex-and-it-makes-me-feel-undesired-as-a-woman">Continue reading...</a>